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On Film School
It was a good place to make mistakes and be an idiot–but
  learn. You make all these videos that nobody will ever see. If someone can pay for it, even better.
On Directing Someone Else’s Work
Directing others’ writing can be good and bad, depending
  on the material. The Sex and the City scripts are
  so good that it was a pleasure and I just wanted to do well for
  the writers. And they are on set enough so that I know when
  I’m doing well, or I can ask them questions. It’s hard to
  work on a television show when the script is only okay, and I have
  to drum up enough enthusiasm to get people through the day and make
  it look great.
On Allowing Someone Else to Direct Your Work
I’d have to see some of their work, like their style
  and see they understood the script. But if someone wanted to direct
  something I wrote, they could do it. I say that now, but
  it hasn’t been done. Maybe they’d do it, ruin the script
  and then I’d be upset.
On Working With the Same Actors
Having worked with Catherine [Keener] before, I certainly
  felt more comfortable. I think she felt she could trust me
  right away. I wrote the part for her. She had more
  confidence coming in and whatever she would bring would be right. I also learned about different ways she liked to be directed,
  so it’s definitely beneficial and easier to work with someone more
  than once.
On Progressing as a Writer
I gained professional and emotional maturity. It
  is easier now to say something once and get out. I’d written
  so much between the two movies–not my own stuff–that I became
  a better writer. Which is not to say my next script won’t
  be shitty, because you never know.
On Editing
I listened to feedback from everyone–actors, writer
  friends. I’ll change dialogue based on an actor’s response,
  such as during improvisation in rehearsal. I’ll take everyone’s
  opinion.
On Script Notes
I would get notes on the script like ‘the male characters
  are too minimal.’ That comment is so stupid to me. Everybody
  has to be front and center? That’s crazy because this isn’t
  a movie about the male characters. I don’t have to be fair. I want them to be good and well written but they certainly don’t
  have to be as dimensional. That’s sexism. You can
  do that to a woman in a man’s movie, but you can’t do that to a
  man in a woman’s movie.
On Getting a First Break
Years and years of trying to prove to people that
  I could do it. Pitch meetings all the time, or flying to
  Europe for meetings with people and trying to act like a person
  who could direct a movie, not really knowing what that person is
  supposed to act like. Who wants to give a million dollars
  to someone who has never directed a movie? I still can’t
  believe how fortunate I am, because I know a lot of talented people
  who are not getting a break.
On Getting the Second Film Off the Ground
Good Machine was attached from the beginning and we
  showed it to all the studios. We were told it was a great
  script but they didn’t know how to market it. Until we sent
  it to Blow Up Pictures, who said we should make it on digital video
  and they would finance it. We spent about a year shuffling
  it around. I was scared and discouraged that it wasn’t going
  to happen.
On Creating for the Audience
If I had an audience in mind while writing, I would
  be smarter about actually keeping them. I just write what
  is on my mind, the kind of movie I would want to see.
On Breaking in as a Woman
I know plenty of struggling men. Sometimes
  I’ve felt like it was in my favor that I was a woman. There
  were three women coming out of film school at the time I was, compared
  with 25 guys. If I made a movie that was interesting, it
  was like "and she’s the girl!" But that can also
  bite you in the ass. It depends on the type of movies you’re
  making. It’s hard for everyone, and I think it can sometimes
  be harder for women.
